Why Do Compliments Make Me Uncomfortable?

Someone tells you that you look great. And instead of feeling good, you immediately want to disappear. Maybe you laugh awkwardly, change the subject, or point out something wrong with your appearance. Someone praises your work, and you start explaining all the things...

Why Do I Feel Ashamed for Existing?

Sometimes shame isn’t about something you did. It’s about who you are. You might feel embarrassed simply taking up space. You apologize for things that aren’t your fault. You feel guilty for having needs. You worry that you’re bothering people...

Why Do I Feel Numb All the Time?

You know you should be feeling something. Something good happens, and you barely react. Someone tells you they love you, and you know you love them too, but you can’t quite feel it. Something upsetting happens, and instead of sadness, anger, or fear,...

Why Does Relaxing Make Me Anxious?

You finally have nothing to do. Nobody needs anything from you. There’s no crisis. Your work is finished. You have an entire evening to yourself. This is supposed to feel good. Instead, you feel anxious. Maybe you become restless and start looking for something...

Why Do I Shut Down During Conflict?

You’re having a disagreement with someone and suddenly…nothing. Your mind goes blank. You can’t find the words you want to say. You may feel numb, disconnected, confused, or strangely far away from what’s happening. Maybe all you can think about is getting out of the...